Each year during November and December
family members in the United States are eagerly looking forward to celebrate
the holidays together but a deployed U.S. military member will have to celebrate
with their other family. The United
States has hundreds of thousands of uniformed military members stationed away
from their homes and families in combat and in relatively safe areas overseas
and in the United States. Military
members are: on ships at sea, in the Middle East, Asia, Europe, South America,
and many other regions of the world some of which we would never even think
about visiting. However, when a military
member is away from home during the holidays their new family is the unit they
are assigned a position no matter where it is located. As you could imagine being away from home
anytime of the year is difficult but during the November and December holidays
it is particularly stressful to be away from the love and comfort of your spouse,
parents and the ability to provide that direct one-to-one love to your children.
While assigned to combat areas of
operation a members military leadership does all that is possible to act as a
second family by providing religious services, recreational facilities, a
holiday meal or two, and just time to relax, however, it is not the same as
being home. I can remember in December
2005 when I was in Baghdad, Iraq and insurgent mortars and rocket were coming
into the compound almost every day we still held Catholic, Protestant, Jewish,
Moslem, and Buddhist religious services that were attended by many individuals some
of which were not members of the particular religion. In fact, some people went from one service to
the next not being concerned about who was conducting it. Maybe part of the reason for going to
multiple services was because there was always an all you can eat religious/ethic
meal after the services. No matters how
comforting the military leaders and unit members try to make the members feel
during the holidays they are still thousands of miles away from their families.
The U.S. military is a volunteer
force and the members are away from their families serving to protect us 24/7
at home. I am sure if you asked any
member deployed they would say that they are proud to serve even through it is
difficult this time of year.
I encourage everybody to support the
troops by sending holiday cards and letters through the USO, local Family
Readiness Unit, and Wounded Warriors Program or contact your local VA hospital,
and military base to arrange for a visit to the Veterans by your family. My wife and I recently took part in serving
Thanksgiving dinner to 150 troops returning from Iraq and another 150 going to
Afghanistan as part of my community Veterans outreach efforts and it was
extremely rewarding.
Additionally, for those active duty
military, Veterans and their families’ members, please look into joining the
Walden University online community “Those that have served helping each
other to succeed”.
To all active duty military and Veterans,
thank you for serving!
Sincerely,
Nelson
Nelson L. Mellitz
Colonel, USAF, Ret
DBA candidate-2012




